You’ve been dating an emotionally unavailable man for a while now, and you’re starting to wonder if he’s actually in love with you. You know that he doesn’t want a committed relationship — but does he want more than just sex?
It’s hard to tell sometimes, especially when someone isn’t able to open up about their feelings. Fortunately for you (and him), there are some signs of true love that will help you determine if the two of you are on the same page.
He actually makes time for you
If he makes time for you and genuinely enjoys your company, it is a sign that he cares about you. He will be more than happy to see you even if he is busy.
He does not cancel on you at the last minute because he has other plans. He may have other plans but if they are not important enough to him, then there is no reason why he should cancel on you.
If he has time in his schedule to meet up with friends or family members, then surely he will have time for someone as important as yourself! This also shows that he values what we have together over anything else at this moment in time which shows how much I am worth just having around me!
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He shares his personal thoughts and feelings with you
If your emotionally unavailable man is in love with you, he will be willing to share his personal thoughts and feelings with you. He will be comfortable being vulnerable with you, as well as asking you about your private thoughts and feelings. The more he opens up to you, the more likely it is that he feels safe sharing his love for you.
If an emotionally unavailable man truly loves someone, one of the surest signs is that he will not only be willing but eager to talk about how much she means to him. It’s not enough for him just to say “I love my girlfriend”; rather he must express this sentiment verbally by sharing how special she makes him feel on a daily basis through words or actions (or both).
He puts an effort into learning about your life and making sure he’s a part of it
You deserve to be with someone who is interested in you. If your guy has been asking questions about your life, even if he doesn’t necessarily seem like the most open person in the world, this is a great sign that he’s falling for you.
It’s not just about what he asks — it’s also about how he asks them. Does his tone sound genuine and empathetic? Does it seem like he genuinely wants to know more about what makes you happy or sad? If so, this could be an indication of his emotional availability.
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He shows interest in your personal interests and hobbies
He shows interest in your personal interests and hobbies.
He asks you about your interests. He may ask about the details of what you’re studying or where you went on vacation. He’ll want to know if he can join you on your next adventure, even if it’s just a trip to the grocery store.
If he already knows something about one of your hobbies or activities, such as a specific skill (like playing guitar), then he will be excited to talk with you more about it later on in conversation.
When someone is interested in getting to know you better and being included in some aspect of your life, it shows that they care for who YOU are as an individual—not just for how attractive or funny or smart “you” are; but rather because “YOU” are what makes them happy!
You’ll know an emotionally unavailable man is in love with you when he makes time for you. He may already be busy with work, school, family, or friends—but if he wants to see you more often and spend more time together, then that’s a good sign.
Another way to tell if someone is interested in you romantically is if they share their personal thoughts and feelings with you. This means talking about things like childhood memories, dreams for the future and other meaningful topics that do not involve sports or work.
He should also be willing to learn about your life so that he can become a part of it. For example: If there’s something specific about your job or interests (such as kayaking) that interests him and intrigues him, then he’ll want to learn more about it from you directly instead of just reading about it online!
Final Words
If you’re in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man, there’s a chance that he’s actually falling in love with you. Even if he isn’t ready to admit it yet, here are some signs that might help you figure out how he feels.
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